always remember to “give back”

St. Charles Children’s Home is a special place that takes care of boys and girls who need help.  The reasons vary; sometimes one or both of their parents don’t want them, or can’t take care of them, or there might be a bad situation where the kids are “at risk” if they stayed home.

The kind-hearted nuns of St. Charles let the children to stay with them, teaching important life lessons, like how to at properly around people and take care of themselves.

Again this year, we visited the home and were welcomed by Pat Beaupre (no relation!) and some of the nuns.  We brought the children special gifts – things they hoped to get for Christmas – including clothes, books, games and toys.  Each of you helped wrap a present, bring one inside and place it under the beautiful, tall tree.

We took some photos and then were shown a magical wooden musical Nutcracker stage with hand-painted characters who danced to the music.  The coolest thing was seeing different stage settings come and go before our eyes.

Christmas is a special holiday for many reasons, but for me the most important reminder is that we are all very lucky to live the lives we do.  We have people who love us, we are in good health (can you imagine not being able to walk, or see, or talk?), we live in nice homes, we have food to eat every day.

Many people don’t have those things.  They’re sick, sometimes so sick they are in wheelchairs, or can never leave their beds (I have a cousin in Philadelphia like that), or they are dying and will not be blessed with a long life.  Some are not able to make enough money, and others can’t work. Can you imagine living on the street, sleeping on a sidewalk and not knowing where your next meal will come from?   These are horrible, sad things, and people shouldn’t have to go through such a tough life.

That’s why it ‘s important for you to always remember the importance of “giving back” which means doing something to help other people to make the world a better place.  Sometimes the kindest gesture of all is to simply smile and talk to someone who’s sad or lonely or in need.  Say something nice, make their day a little better.  That doesn’t cost a penny!

Other things you can do include “volunteering” (donating your time) to support a special cause (like working at a food bank when you’re older), or making something (a card, brownies, cookies, etc.), or saving money to give to others who need it or doing something physical like running a race that raises money for a special cause. We are so lucky, so remember to share your good luck with others to help them out and bring a smile to their faces.

Giving back, helping others, is the best feeling of all, way better than doing something for yourself.  Try it, you’ll see!  Love you always and Merry Christmas!

 

a list of “always” for the festival of trees

Every two years, we visit the Portsmouth “Festival of Trees” during the Christmas holidays.  Our experience always includes:

1. People, lots and lots of people!  It’s always packed; the lines to see the decorated trees are very long and the parking lot is jammed packed.

2.  C-C-C-C-old!  Its always bone-chilling cold!  This year was no exception, for the first time ever we skipped the first house trees because the wait outside was brutally, bone-numbingly freezing. The adults mind it more than the kids!

3. Your partners in crime!   You always have a blast running around with your cousins. Everyone’s in a good mood, zipping, skipping, taking everything in!

4. Yummy # 1!   the free chowder always warms us up, at just the right time.

5.  Making a decision!  It’s always fun to decide which tree – out of dozens and dozens of decorated trees –  is our personal favorite.  Once we decide, we take our wooden popsicle “voting stick,” drop it in the container by our chosen tree, and cast our vote.  It’s more fun than voting for the President of the United States!

6.  Yummy # 2!  After an hour or two of tree viewing and bearing the cold, it’s always wonderful to go to the Japanese Steakhouse.  The chef cooks our food in front of us, making volcanoes out of stacked onions, lighting surprisingly hot fires and flipping food into our mouths (we try to catch things, but usually don’t).

Hooray for the 2013 Festival of Trees, one of our favorite nights during the holidays!

no more baby stuff

Booooooo!

Woooooo!

It’s Halloween 2013, and you were ready for the big leagues.

When Grammy and I got to your house to see your costumes and bring Halloween surprises, you were still getting your makeup on.  Once finished, I asked about it and you said:

I’m done with the baby costumes. I decided I’m not doing that any more.  I want to be something scary!

Eight years old is a perfect age to step it up, I agree.  When I was your age, I was a big fan of monster movies and monster models, including Phantom of the Opera, The Mummy, the Creature from the Black Lagoon and my favorites Wolfman, Dracula and Frankenstein.  Creepy, spooky was in; cute was out.

I like this picture of you on your front steps.  You were in your own scary zone, doing your thing, within your own imagination, getting ready to Trick or Treat.  I hadn’t asked you to pose.   Madigan is taking it all in, look at her expression!

happy 8th birthday Camden!

smart. competitive. good looking. deliberate.

funny. athletic. loving. determined. confident.

great smile. engaging. successful.energetic.

the beaupre legacy-bearing torch bearer.

these are just a few of the thoughts that spring to mind when I think of you on a special day when you turn eight.

Happy birthday Camden, I love you!

new Lego sets from Grammy & Papa for the Lego Master

just chillin’ @ your favorite place

You’re a beach lover boy.

You’ve said it before, “it’s my peaceful place.”

something about the beach… you don’t have to do much to have an extraordinary day.  It’s a combination of things…  the smell of salty air, soft sand, warm sun, feeling relaxed, watching the waves roll in, braving the water.

and a million other sensations that span sight, sound, taste, touch.

here are a few photos from an August day, summer 2013:

playing on the beach, waiting for the next big wave, trying to hang onto your little sand mountain

playing with Papa's iPad enjoying a "Moody Beach" (gatorade, cranraspberry and lots of ice)

big brother and baby sister, posing by the rock wall, waiting for the ice cream truck

taste: a chocolate face after a coldly fantastic fudgicle

hot times for our July 3M adventure!

Despite being at at a fun place – Fun-O-Rama in York, Maine – we were drained of energy, sweating like sweat hogs, and in urgent need of liquid refreshment.

That’s because our Summer 2013 3M adventure fell on day three of a seven day heat wave that battered New England wit 90+ temperatures and high humidity.

Yucky, sticky. Icky.

Fun-O-Rama is an old fashioned place…  that includes no air conditioning.  It features an unusual wide open wooden front – built at the turn of the last century – that overlooks Short Sands.  The sights, sounds, bathing suit wearing sunbathers and temperatures all come pouring in.

We gave it our best shot, playing a wide variety of retro eighties arcade games and some golden oldies from the Fifties or Sixties that included:

  • Ms. Pac Man
  • Pinball
  • knock out the teeth
  • punch the stomach
  • air hockey
  • skee ball
  • dance revolution
  • arm wrestling

 

We even played nine holes of indoor miniature golf:

As we neared midday, we were running out of steam. We didn’t even care about cashing in the tickets that had been won for prizes!

We ran into a famous TV star at Fun-O-Rama, so that was cool (especially for me):

I bought icey drinks, you let me take your picture, then we climbed in the Youk and headed back to the beach house where Grammy, Ainsley, Molly, Jack and Nicole (“Mom” to you Clickman 3M’rs) were eating lunch.

Within 15 minutes we were in AC at the beach house.  It was so hot Grammy had to cool things down… there was no sea breeze blowing through, just a stifling land breeze  providing no relief.

After a bit of refreshment and sun lotion applications, we hit the beach for the hopefully cooler water temperatures and serious boogie boarding.  Good news on the first hope:  the water temps were a rare and remarkable 75 degrees plus!  Although this is cold to most people, to us true ocean lovers, it was cool but also much warmer than normal.

As far as the second hope – boogie boarding – well, that didn’t pan out.  The ocean was like a lake with no waves.  Also VERY unusual.

Ahhhh, that feels better!

the boy of summer

I always look forward to summer baseball.  Grammy and I get to see you hustle and bustle along the base paths, trying hard to hit the ball, score a run or make a play.  Nothing like a baseball game on a warm summer day, especially when you’re playing.  The only thing missing is the hot dog and popcorn! (hey we’ll have to try that next year).

Like all the other sports you play, you stepped up your game this year. You try hard and love the competition.   It’s been fun seeing your progress!  Here are some shots of you in action: